WOW: vrouwen vieren hun (im)perfecte lichaam open en bloot op Instagram

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#BoPo.

Iedereen heeft complexen. De één vindt zichzelf te dik, de ander zichzelf te mager, te klein, te groot, te donker, te licht en nog anderen voelen zich slecht omdat ze een handicap hebben. Waarom eigenlijk? Het enige waarvoor we ons zouden moeten schamen is dat we deze gedachten in ons leven toelaten. Iedereen weet dat de foto’s uit magazines grondig bijgewerkt zijn. Toch blijven we onszelf, bewust of onbewust, aan zulke onrealistische idealen spiegelen. Wordt het niet eens tijd dat we aanvaarden hoe we eruitzien en trots zijn op wat we wel of niet hebben? De hashtag #BoPro is al een tijd populair bij vrouwen (en enkele mannen) op Instagram. ‘Body positivity’ is het doel. Positief zijn over je eigen lichaam, dat door heel de wereld gezien mag worden.

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@rvbyallegra makes my feed SO much brighter and this post is EVERYTHING 💜⬇ ・・・ ••UNAPOLOGETIC•• "I've had a storm in my mind over the last few days. Conflicting emotions; some good, some not. I thought hard about whether I wanted to actually post this full image from the @underneath_we_are_women campaign. I'm smiling in this photo – I think it's a wonderful portrayal of my personality and general attitude. I was smiling, but I was also terrified as this was being shot. As much confidence as I may exude and portray to the world in my everyday life, the reality is I've harboured quite strong feelings of resentment toward my own body for a lot of my life. Feelings, I think, which are a reflection of society's deeply internalised attitude towards the disabled body; that it is unattractive, undesirable, shameful, broken and that it should be changed, fixed or covered up. When I note that it's not in fact my stomach or my arms or my hips that I find it difficult to look at, or that I'm wearing almost nothing, some people may be surprised. It's my legs and feet. They're swollen as a result of lipoedema and look different because of my disability. I've been very good at hiding them from the world for years. Facing the pressures placed upon women to conform to idealised standards of beauty has been somewhat easier for me than it has been for me to live in this world as a woman with a physical disability. This is why I have decided to post this picture. It needs to be seen. I wish, as a little girl, I had seen something like this. A disabled role model telling me that I was allowed to love myself, that I didn't have to hide, be ashamed of or apologise for my body. That I existed. I had to figure this out (for the most part) on my own, and at times it was incredibly lonely, traumatising and isolating. This shoot was incredibly liberating and has taken me a step further toward my self acceptance and ability to live unapologetically in this body and in this life. 💕🌿✨🐬 Thankyou @amydfoto for pushing me to do this."

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Same girl, same time. 〰 Spanx etc can change your body hugely. Control underwear is everywhere. Companies telling us to smooth our lines, control and flatten our tummies, Nip in or waist. Forever making us feel not good enough, not societally perfect enough. Every celeb under the sun has even sporting waist clinchers and control Spanx and many of us compare our natural form to these control garment figures 〰 You don't NEED to change a thing or sweat your ass off in a tight uncomfortable garment under your clothes. You don't need to suck in anything or change the shape of anything. (Of course if you want to then that's okay too- the difference between wanting to and NEEDING to/feeling like you HAVE to is key) 〰 Both these photos are beautiful to me, the difference here is that I feel far more comfortable on the right mentally and physically. The photo on the left isn't how my body actually looks and I'm uncomfortable with that. The photo on the right is me, my natural form and to me, personally it's the most beautiful thing to be comfortable without the need to change💜 〰

A post shared by Milly Smith 💛🌻☀️👑 (@selfloveclubb) on


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